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B - I Can’t Say No
pleaser
focus
prioritize
insecure
selfish
dependent / independent
self-reliant
use somebody
doormat
pushover
assertive
passive
submissive
deferential
alpha (dog) (male)
ask a favor / do a favor

Do you think Brad has a problem? If so, what is it? Why is it  a problem?
Do you agree most with Trin, Monica, or Koji?
What advice would you give Brad if her were your friend?
Is Brad hurting anyone other than himself? Explain.
How can someone begin to learn how to say “no”?
How easy is it for you to say now when you want to?
Do you want to change that?
How often do people ask you for help? How does that make you feel?
How often do you ask others for help? How does that make you feel?
How to change:
http://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Being-a-People-Pleaser
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