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| Do you think Brad has a problem? If so, what is it? Why is it a problem? |
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| What advice would you give Brad if her were your friend? |
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| Is Brad hurting anyone other than himself? Explain. |
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| How can someone begin to learn how to say “no”? |
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| How easy is it for you to say now when you want to? |
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| Do you want to change that? |
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| How often do people ask you for help? How does that make you feel? |
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| How to change: http://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Being-a-People-Pleaser |
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| Other experiences, stories, research... Download page: http://tonyinosaka.googlepages.com/tonysensei Extra Material: http://www.impactseries.com/Issues_new/issues_link.html Video (opinions): http://www.impactseries.com/Issues_new/issues_personal_opi.html |
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